Gift-Giving
Some of us might have already started checking off our gift shopping list, yet there could be some who are still trying to figure out what gifts to get and who is on their list this year. Gift-giving can be stressful especially for those on a tight budget. Considering the “why” of giving can alleviate some of that stress. Take for example a couple that used to enjoy giving gifts, who may now have a growing family and their disposable income has dwindled. They could opt for a simple yet sincere card or a homemade gift.
Gift-giving is always about the recipient. Just because we like something does not mean that we have to pass it on to someone else. By paying special attention and listening closely to our family members and friends, we will find out what is their interest and gift them accordingly. For example, they might express a desire to dine out at a restaurant that is outside their budget, in this case, a gift card to the said restaurant will be most appreciated.
Here are some great tips heading into the holiday season:
Just because my friend has expressed her desire to lose weight doesn’t mean that I should gift her a gym membership, unless she has specifically said she would like to join a gym but it’s beyond her financial reach for now. Otherwise, this would be in bad taste.
If someone says “Don’t buy me a gift”, we need to listen and take them seriously, as the gift is about them and not us. It doesn’t matter what their reasons are, just don’t buy them a gift.
Follow your company policy when considering getting gifts for co-workers. Some companies discourage gifting especially to the boss.
We need to respect parents’ wishes when it comes to buying gifts for their children as we don’t want to interrupt the way they are raising them.
There is no need to price match, as some loved ones might have the budget for those extravagant gifts more than we do.
When attending holiday parties, let us not show up empty-handed. The host/hostess has opened up their home to us and put an effort into making sure we have a memorable time. Thank them by giving chocolates, candles (safe to go with the unscented ones) or a holiday ornament.
Consider getting a joint gift for a couple that will be meaningful for both.
Add a nice touch by wrapping the gift and personalizing the card to go along with it.
